Back in February when
Michelle said, "I love to hear how and why parents pick their kids' names!" I was in the throes of morning sickness and barely mustering enough energy to make it through a day. So I put off a response...and I put it off some more...and I am just now being inspired to type out a few words on the topic!
When I was pregnant with my first, we had a whole pool of names available to us. We chose a boy name and a girl name well before the much-anticipated ultrasound. When we found out he was a boy, we already knew he was to be Gavin, a name my mom had liked when naming my brother 20 years earlier (!) but my dad had vetoed. We paired it with the middle name Christopher because Brian's middle name is also Christopher.
When I was pregnant for the second time, name-choosing was again an easy process. We decided to wait until after the ultrasound to choose names and when we found out she was a girl, we went back to the name we had chosen if Gavin had been a girl: Madelyn. We tossed out many middle names before settling on Leah, which is my middle name.
The name game took a new turn with the third pregnancy. We decided not to find out what we were having ahead of time so we had to choose two names. However, the names I like, Brian did not like...and the names he liked, I wasn't so crazy about. The only thing we were sure about was that if the baby was a boy, he would have my dad's middle name (and my dad's dad's middle name): Baxter. In the weeks before the birth, we made our decisions and when he was born and I saw that he was indeed a boy, we gave him the name Owen.
Pregnancy number four presented another naming challenge. We decided to find out the gender again and we also decided not to talk about names until after we knew therefore eliminating half of the difficult process. When the tech announced we were expecting our third boy, the wheels began to turn...and turn...and turn. We soon realized that there was only one name we both agreed on so rather than prolong the process, we settled on it right away: Benjamin. The middle name was easy again. We chose to give him my mom's dad's middle name: Cooper.
The ironic thing is that though each child was given the middle name of a family member, we didn't realize until recently that they also have birthdays close to their namesakes. Gavin Christopher (named after Brian Christopher) has a birthday the month before his daddy. Madelyn Leah (named after me, Kristin Leah) has a birthday exactly three weeks before mine). Owen Baxter (named after my dad, Ronald Baxter) has a birthday five days after my dad. And Benjamin Cooper (named after my grandfather, Richard Cooper) was born just three days before his great-grandfather's birthday!
How did you name your children?