Not Me! Monday

Welcome to Not Me! Monday! This blog carnival was created by MckMama. You can head over to her blog to read what she and everyone else have not been doing this week.


I did not keep my 2-year-old up all day and not give him a nap just so he would go to bed early at night. Not me!

I did not buy a can of whipped cream for the kids' hot chocolate and then eat most of it myself. Of course not!

I did not get so wrapped up in what I was doing that I forgot I had to cook dinner and then have throw something together at the last minute...every night this week!

I did not line the kids up for a photo shoot and then get frustrated when they didn't all smile and look at the camera at the same time. I didn't make them sit there for twenty minutes until I got the perfect shot either! I just wouldn't do that!

I did not serve my picky eater applesauce again rather than make him try his corn! Not me!

I did not make my 4-year-old play BINGO with her brothers and then bow out of Chutes and Ladders myself. (Of course I wouldn't do that because I love Chutes and Ladders and love how you always get to the top and then have to take a slide all the way to the bottom and start again!)

I did not make my 6-year-old son wear yellow flowered pajama pants under his jeans to go out in the snow because I couldn't find anything else to be his second layer.

No, not Me!

Slingin' Saturday-- Rockin' Baby Sling

This edition of Slingin' Saturday features the Rockin' Baby Sling. Thanks to Lisa McDaniel and Natasha Walsh for their generous donation!

The Rockin' Baby Sling is a ring sling, something I was eager to try. However, having worn so many pocket slings, this was quite an adjustment. It was hard getting used to the excess fabric hanging down and threading the rings was a challenge, too. While this sling wasn't my favorite, it had some wonderful features.

• The fabric in the tail had a zipper pocket for tucking an extra diaper or the car keys.
  


• The sling was reversible making it more versatile (for those who like their sling to match their outfit as I do!).
  
  
• Because ring slings allow you to tighten the fabric around the baby, I was able to wear Benjamin upright against my chest even before he could support his own weight.
  
  
• Also because of the ability to loosen and tighten the fabric, these ring slings are one-size fits-all so I didn't have to worry about choosing the best size.

To order one for yourself, click here!

To read my review of the Rockin' Baby Pouch (the pocket pouch made by the same company), click here!

And don't forget to check back NEXT SATURDAY for my sling giveaway!!!

More and More Hats!

I love making hats! I often have pieces of fleece left from making baby blankets so I use the remnants to sew hats for the kids. This was a fun one I made for Owen last year. It still fits him and he loves to wear it...even when it isn't hat weather!

This was a hat I made for Owen when he was a baby. I found it the other day and was delighted to discover it fit Ben...not that he needs another hat!

For more Frugal Friday ideas, visit Crystal at Biblical Womanhood!

Works-For-Me Wednesday-- Extra Seating

Our sets of buns (as in heinies, not the cinnamon variety!) are increasing in number, but our sofa has not grown along with our family size! A couple of years ago, I made a set of floor pillows out of some brown corduroy. We keep them stacked in the corner where they can be pulled out easily when needed. The kids plop on them to watch TV. They also come in handy when we have guests and the adults are filling the comfy spots in the living room. We also pull out the floor pillows at nap time since we aren't very strict about where Owen sleeps during the afternoon as long as he lying down and resting! (The floor pillows have on occasion even served as walls to a fort!)

As large as these pillows are, my angels began arguing about who would have to share. It is quite an insult to be the one to sit on the seam between two pillows, you know. I decided the time had come to add to our stack of pillows. I had a couple of large pieces of fabric I had been looking to do something with, so I made Gavin and Owen each a special pillow for Christmas. (New use for pillows: sitting on them while opening the rest of your Christmas gifts!)

Family movie night in January was an extra-special affair, too!

Edited to add: Several people asked what I used to stuff my pillows. I buy bags of Poly-Fil at Walmart for about $3/bag. It took less than a bag per pillow which I figured was pretty economical!

Read more Works-For-Me Wednesday tips every week at Rocks in My Dryer.

Encouraging Independence

No child really has to be taught independence. Each of my children has gotten to the point where that want to begin doing things on their own. Whether it is put on their own socks or measure the flour into the mixing bowl, there comes a day when they insist on my standing back with hands off! I thought my only choice was to give in and let them do poorly until they figure it out or insist that I do it for them the right way.

I've found that the best thing, though, is somewhere between the two. When the child asks to do a task alone, I take the time to teach them to do it the way I want it done. When Owen wanted to begin washing himself, it was tempting to insist that I continue doing it to make sure he didn't miss any stinky crevices (like those chubby neck folds). Instead, I handed him the soap and we played a game. I said, "As fast as you can, wash your arms...as slow as you can, wash your arms...as silly as your can, wash your knees..." Within a bathtime or two, he was reminding me of places he needed to wash.

When Maddie wanted to put the baking powder in the biscuit dough, I cringed imagining flat rounds. Instead of measuring it myself as always and letting her pour it in, I showed her how to heap it on the spoon and scrape it off against the edge of the can. I also explained the consequences of improper measurement so she understood the importance of getting it just right.

The same principle applies with housework. We require that our children help around the house, but when I have a job that must be done, it is often tempting to give them busy work and do the tough stuff myself. In the long run, it so much better to take a few minutes to teach them how to work beside me. At four, Maddie is a true helper! Last week, we cleaned the bathroom together and when she cleaned the sink alone, I didn't have to go behind her to check her work because I knew she knew what to do!

If you catch kids at the beginning of the, "I'll do it!" stage, even better! Owen loves to help. When Gavin puts away laundry, Owen runs around yelling, "What's my job?" until I give him a pile of socks to take upstairs.

Now if I could just teach them to not leave Legos (or other sharp toys) in my path...

Slingin' Saturday-- Hefty Load

Even a cranky toddler can enjoy a ride in the sling while Mama cooks dinner!

The Many Hats of Benjamin

I hate cold weather, but bundled-up babies are so cute! We have had an unseasonably cold winter so Benjamin has quite the hat collection!

This hat was a Christmas present from his Aunt Bekah.

We call this his Russian hat because it sticks up off of his head!

I made and embroidered this owl hat for him right after Christmas.

Names Have Been Changed to Protect the Innocent

I find it interesting how dads and moms handle the little things in parenting! (This is in no way meant to disrespect my husband!) Take these scenarios:

It's lunchtime.
Dad fixes Child #1's lunch, then Child #2's, then Child #3's.
Mom spreads peanut butter on Child #1's sandwich with left hand while slicing apples for Child #2 with right hand. Child #3's mac and cheese is already cooking in the microwave.

Baby spits up on parent's clothing.
Mom blots it from her pants with a wet wipe.
Dad changes his entire outfit.

Family goes out for a walk.
Mom takes a leisurely stroll, enjoying the fresh air and the chance for the boys to yell without being shushed.
Dad runs at full speed pulling the wagon full of kids behind him.

Children haven't had a bath in three days and it's bedtime.
Dad says, "Oh well. They'll live."
Mom feels guilty, wipes everyone down with a washcloth, and makes them change their underwear to tide them over until the next "real" bath.

The Glamourmom Challenge

As I've mentioned before, my biggest problem with nursing bras is their overall lack of support! I figured nursing tanks were the same way-- only worse. I mean, how much support can a tank really offer?! I've tried those (non-nursing) tanks with a built-in shelf bra in the past and they do next to nothing!

Recently I was given the opportunity to try a Glamourmom Nursing Tank Bra to review! I was pleasantly surprised with the design. A soft-cup bra (more structured than a shelf bra) is built right into the shirt. The tank itself is made a firm, stretchy material for additional support. I chose a cream color which matches almost any shirt or sweater in my closet. Having nursed three babies into toddlerhood, I consider myself a nursing-in-public expert, but this tank made it even easier and certainly more convenient. Since the tank has nursing clasps on the straps, I can nurse without having to reveal any tummy skin. That is a wonderful feature for chilly winter temps, too. The only downside to the tank is that after wearing it all day, it started to feel too tight and I was ready to change into my PJs. (Too much support? I can't be pleased, can I?)

The Glaumormom Nursing Bra Tank retails for $34-- not too bad for a wardrobe staple! It comes in various colors and prints. Glaumourmom also offers other styles and lengths. If you order from them, please let them know you heard about their product from me by entering my referral code, KRSH70.

Dive Into a Book!

I'm not a big winter person. At least, I'm not a big outdoor winter person. My idea of a great winter day is staying inside from morning until night-- no errands and no dashes out to the store.  We use our housebound time to (among other things) dive into books.

A few years ago, when Charlotte's Web came to the theaters, we spent the weeks leading up to its release reading the original story by E. B. White, coloring a picture of a barn, making our own farm animals flash cards...Gavin and Brian even made a cardboard model of the Zuckermans' farm that we found at a discount book store. Finally, we treated ourselves to a matinee showing of the new movie at a local theater.

This year, we plan to read The Mitten a fun and easy picture book by Jan Brett. To go along with it, I ordered the kids this kit . Maddie will make the mittens, Gavin will use the hammer he got for Christmas to punch the tin, and we will all learn about mammals with the lap book. Even Owen can participate with this fun craft from the Jan Brett website.
When we get back to more formal schooling in February, I plan to read Mr. Popper's Penguins and have Maddie work through Going On Eagerly, a fun winter workbook put out by Rod and Staff Publishers.

Winter is such a fun time to immerse ourselves in these pieces of literature.